Chapter 9
Because my healing could not depend on his ability to feel guilty.
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“I want to fix it,” he said.
I looked at him.
“Fix what?”
“Our relationship.”
The words sounded strange.
Relationship.
A word for something that had to exist before it could be repaired.
“You cannot rebuild a house after pretending you never burned it down.”
He swallowed.
“I’m your father.”
I nodded.
“Yes.”
The answer surprised him.
Because he expected anger.
But anger was no longer where I lived.
“You are my father.”
I paused.
“But being my father was a responsibility you abandoned.”
He closed his eyes.
“And I have spent my whole life learning how to survive without it.”
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A week later, my mother came.
Then Ethan.
It was almost predictable.
My father had gone first because he was the one who believed apologies could repair everything.
My mother came because she could not stand being the only person left without control.
Ethan came because Claire had officially ended their engagement.
The three of them sat across from me in the Northstar conference room.
The same room where investors had once questioned whether I could build a billion-dollar company.
Now my family sat there.
Not as powerful people.
Not as people above me.
Just people.
“I’m sorry,” my mother said.
Her voice shook.
“I should have come back.”
I looked at her.
“Yes.”
She cried quietly.
“I was ashamed.”
I nodded.
“I know.”
She looked surprised.
“You know?”
“Yes.”
Because I had spent years imagining their reasons.
I had imagined anger.
Cruelty.
Indifference.
But the truth was often more complicated.
They were ashamed.
And instead of facing what they did, they ran from it.
But their shame did not erase my pain.
A person can regret hurting you and still have hurt you.
Both things can exist.
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Then Ethan spoke.
“I was a kid too.”
I looked at him.
He was thirty-four years old.
A grown man.
Still searching for an excuse.
“You were sixteen when you laughed about it.”
His expression changed.
“You remember that?”
“I remember everything.”
He looked down.
“I didn’t think it was serious.”
That sentence.
That one sentence explained everything.
Because Ethan had lived eighteen years believing my suffering was a story.
Not a reality.
“You thought it was funny.”
He looked ashamed.
“Yes.”
“And when did you stop thinking it was funny?”
He did not answer.
Because the answer was obvious.